Archive for November, 2009

Down a Familiar Path

Monday, November 30th, 2009
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Two years ago I was able to take my wife Gloria to the Dominican Republic on a Sponsor tour with Compassion International. Now, I have seen Compassion’s work close up for many years, but this was the first time that I was able to share a field experience with my best friend and I was anxious to view things differently. Sure enough, on the first day of the trip the staff took us to a small project where Compassion has what they call a “Child Survival Program”. Child mortality rates are very high in third world countries and the child Survival program is a very special program that meets the needs of Moms and their babies from pre-natal up through 3 or 4 years old. The aim of the program is to give the babies the best possible start in life by teaching mothers how to love and care for this new little person in their lives.

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A part of the project tour included a home visit. We happened to visit the home of a young mother named Katherine. Katherine was just a teenager, children having children. Her daughter, Villenny, was what brought her to Compassion’s project. Katherine lived in a small 10×10 shack cobbled together outside of her mothers house with nothing but a dirt floor. Made of plywood and tin and not enough of either to actually keep the weather out. It seemed like the kind of place that might be dryer outside in a rainstorm.

For me these were fairly familiar surroundings. For Gloria, this was all overwhelming and new. Gloria’s heart was broken that day for young mothers and the reality of the conditions in which they live. She noticed, for example, that the only door that Katherine had on your small house was a piece of plywood that you would pull across the opening. Anyone wishing to break in and do the small, frail family harm had easy access. That day we fell in love with Katherine and her baby, and I have thought about her and her condition many times since.

Today, I was traveling with a group of businessmen from the U.S. to the Dominican Republic to introduce them to Compassion’s ministry. Two years after meeting Katherine, I find myself walking down the broken and dangerous path to Katherine’s house. “What are you doing God?” I am asking myself. This was not planned. I had no idea that I would returning to the same neighborhood, the same church, the same house that I had visited so long ago. And yet, here I was.

Katherine was changed. She was different. Her countenance was brighter and she was more open. She had learned valuable skills from being a part of Compassion and she was now making and selling jewelry in order to support her family. Although her countenance had changed, her living conditions had not. The shack with the dirt floor in which she lived looked no more protective than it had before. Sure, the she had painted a window on her plywood door, but it still provided no more protection than when we were here last. I had the opportunity to pray for this small family, and I am in the process of determining if I can sponsor the little girl, Villenny, in the Compassion child development project.

Here is what I learned today. God orchestrates amazing encounters. Be on the alert for what He is doing. Who knows if He will approach you through something foreign or through something familiar.

Interested in sponsoring a child of your own through Compassion? Click HERE for a list of kids in need.

Too Much Tomorrow

Sunday, November 29th, 2009
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Many of us spend too much time anticipating our future. The problem, is the lens through which we view the future is very dim. It is hard to know the future, hard to predict with any certainty what will happen tomorrow. The real trouble is that we get our hearts set on things which are not assured. Getting our hearts (and our minds) overly committed to an unpredictable future can lead us to make some pretty bad decisions. Further, it can lead to a life of habitual frustration about things not turning out the “way they are supposed to be”, as if there was some promise made to us about what our destiny is.

I am leaving for a trip to the Dominican Republic tomorrow and I have a flight itinerary from our travel agency. To read the itinerary, you would think that the flight times (down to the minute) were some sort of guarantee. However, those of us that have ever done any traveling know that often that flight itinerary is just a bunch of wishful thinking. And many times as an international traveler you learn the hard way that you get to control a total of NONE of what happens when you are on the road. Flights get canceled, luggage gets lost, weather goes bad and the plans you made are only as good as the next immediate leg of your trip.

Early in my international travel career I had the privilege of flying with several very seasoned travelers. As a result, I learned a new rule about travel: “go with the flow”. From the time I leave the house, until the time I arrive back home (i.e “door-to-door”), I work very hard to simply take things as they come and enjoy the journey as much as I possibly can. Sure, I may end up stranded in an airport for hours on end. Perhaps running from one gate to another trying to make the next available flight. But, remembering that you don’t get to control what happens, but you do get to control your attitude and emotions.

The same applies to life. Planning is fine (and often necessary), but worrying about tomorrow and the things that you cannot control is pointless and leads to misery and frustration. Enjoy the journey. Live in the now, and don’t worry so much about tomorrow. Adjust to the constant ebb and flow of the river of life and try not to become frustrated when the journey takes you somewhere new. Often the best experiences (and restaurants) can be found down an alley you would not have gone down on your own.

Cross Train your Brain #8

Thursday, November 26th, 2009
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By briefly shifting from your current thoughts and thought processes, you allow your brain to attack your problems in different and creative ways. We call this “Cross Train your Brain”.

Let’s face it, taking your mind off of your normal thoughts (including your fears, stresses, anxieties, planning, worrying, regrets, etc.) is a great way to disengage mentally (in other words to take a break) and to flex your brain in a way that you normally may not. It may be a logic problem, a math problem, a science problem or a simple riddle. in any case, it will get your brain working in a different way than normal…and, who knows, you just may have a little fun in the process.

This puzzle may be very easy for you to solve, or very hard. If the answer does not come immediately, we would like to encourage you to not give up too quickly. Don’t rush to view the answer, but really ponder the question. Approach the problem from different angles. Try to think in an unconventional way (i.e. “outside the box”).

Now, flex that brain!

THANKSGIVING DINNER

Ann, Mike, Lyn, and Bill, whose last names are Juarez, Newton, Myers, and Ken, each have a favorite Thanksgiving dish – turkey, dressing, cranberry sauce, and pumpkin pie. Sort out the clues and match up everything.

1. Juarez has her favorite dish after the main meal.

2. Mike loves his favorite dish with lots of onion and celery in it.

3. Myers has her favorite dish served in slices (light and dark).

4. Ann hates sweets.

5. Newton is allergic to cranberries.

Click HERE for the answer.

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10 Things That Don’t Cause Arthritis

Wednesday, November 18th, 2009
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Think that cracking your knuckles as a kid will cause arthritis later in life? Would it surprise you to know that there is no scientific evidence to support that? One of of every six adults in the United States suffers from Arthritis of some sort. Arthritis is quite simply any inflammation of a joint. However, in most cases arthritis develops for no know reason.

There are, however, a variety of theories (and in some case legends) about what does cause arthritis. Here are the top 10:

1. Overuse
2. The weather, or a damp cold breeze
3. Most medications
4. Infections and Vaccinations
5. The wrong diet
6. Cracking your knuckles
7. Getting older
8. Mental or emotional stress
9. Poor Posture
10. Inadequate calcium intake

Read the full article HERE

Stressed Out? May I Offer you Some Chocolate?

Sunday, November 8th, 2009
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A recent study published in the Journal of Proteome Research indicates that dark chocolate can help to lower the stress hormones in people how are feeling highly stressed. The study demonstrated that individuals who were feeling high levels of stress saw a reduction in their stress by eating about an ounce and a half of chocolate each day for two weeks.

“The study provides strong evidence that a daily consumption of 40 g of dark chocolate during a period of 2 weeks is sufficient to modify the metabolism of free living healthy human subjects”
Read the full article HERE

There is growing scientific evidence that antioxidants and other beneficial substances in dark chocolate may lower the risk of heart disease and other negative health conditions. Now, go and get some dark chocolate but, to minimize the negative impacts of consuming all of those calories, we would suggest that you split the chocolate into two equal servings and eat one serving with lunch and one serving with dinner, substituting a grain with each meal for the chocolate.

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